In the tradition of the Buddha, Karuna (compassion) is seen as what happens when an awakening heart meets the suffering that arises in life. As with the other Brahma Viharas (Radiant Abodes) of Metta (Lovingkindness), Mudita (Appreciative Joy) and Uppeka (Equanimity), is is thought to be a seed of potential in all human hearts. For some it may naturally be nourished by the circumstances of their lives, while for others it may be something that the consciously cultivate or unconsciously ignore.
When we cultivate it, we invoke both the strength and spaciousness needed to bear witness to those situations that bring forth states of being that span the spectrum from irritation to rage, mild discomfort to seemingly unbearable pain.While most people instinctively want to turn away from what hurts, Buddhism offers the radical teaching that we must actually turn towards and be present with the painful states in order that we can understand them.
In this framework, the suffering is not the pain that arises, but suffering is actually our struggle against the pain and the confusing swirl of shame and blame that is so often part of our habitual and often unconscious reaction to pain, whether it is physical, emotional, psychological or spiritual.
The practice of exploring and embodying compassion in the framework of the Brahma Viharas, requires us to built trust in our own ability to bear witness to and to create space around the pain, so that we can make conscious choices in how we want to act --we can carefully and wisely respond rather than blindly react.
This is part one of a two part exploration of compassion and we will focus on kind and careful investigation of the suffering that arises in our own bodies hearts and minds. Part two will happen in Nov/Dec 2025 and will invite us to connect with the bigger tapestry of suffering in the world, in a way that is sustainable, wise and integrated.
Please note that if you are in active stages of grief or dealing with trauma, this online group course may not be suitable for you at this time unless you are also resourced with in-person supports that address your important individual needs. However, if you are unsure or have questions about the suitability of this course for you at this time, please feel free to reach out [email protected] and we can have a chat about what might be a good way forward to support you.